In 2010, I moved to Milan. I had already been to Italy several times but always as a tourist or within my family. During one year, I stayed with Erasmus people and observed the Italians from the outside. When I finished school, I started hanging out with Italians and even moved in with one. I suddenly discover another world… I changed from the icy girl that could not stand “the Italian noisy/maccho behaviour” to the girl actually enjoying everyday their "bizarreries". I decided that I should share my experience with non Italians.

This is how it starts….

NB: I would like to mention that even if sometimes I’m a bit sharp and sarcastic, it’s more a way of emphasizing how I ve been surprised by the difference of culture. Being not Italian, you will probably always be in a cultural learning process; but the only thing that I know, now that I'm back to France, each time I hear some Italians speaking, I think it's like singing and that they're performing a show, the show of living, which makes me immediately smile...

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Leaving Italy: merchandising and design...


Last week end, while I was walking in Milan, paying attention to every details, so I could capture them forever in my mind, I was trying to understand why I loved so much this town and what I’ll be missing once back to France.
For example, each time I have to think about Paris, "show off and cold" come to my mind. On the contrary, I consider Milan “boiling” and trendy without being bossy. You can feel humility in the postwar constructions, acting like imperfection stains in the middle of the historic architectural palaces. The roads, poorly maintained, sometimes dirty, contrast with the beauty of showrooms and palaces. 
Milan is not about doing it big, it’s not like striking by being overwhelming, nothing compared to Times Square or Dubai for example. Milan is about surprising even in the tiny places you would never expect. 
I’ve been trying to figure out why even the smallest shop in Milan is cool. OK, I understand it’s a bigger town than the one where I’ve been raised, though I like thinking that Italians are different and can't consider experimenting a place without design, that it's part of their culture. When you know as well, that you have more architects in Italy than in the rest of Europe, you ‘re in a way increasing the proportion of having the right "connections" to setup your place or to have out of the box/cool ideas….
Living in Milan for me, was like having the feeling of being in a bubble, where merchandising would meet design and art. Every week, taking the bus and passing in front of COIN 5Giornate windows displays was a bit like my treat, each time I was wondering which crazy idea they would have come up with that time…


This is part of the things I will probably miss the more: in Milan, shops are not about selling a product, they re about selling an experience. Same for the restaurants or the bars (when you skip the more traditionalist), you go there and it’s a bit like a game, if you’re paying attention to details, you will discover small “gifts” that were left while doing the layout of the place. The other day, I went to Pasta Madre restaurant in Porta Romana, I found the place awesome, the clothes hanger was made with kitchenware, the door handle was made with a trowel. When I took a picture of the ceiling made of recycled carton roll, one of the customers started watching up and suddenly discovered this detail. 
It's about watching and observing.In an era, where we promote the 5 senses experience and eco sustainable design, eating or shopping in a surprising and enjoyable place, is enhancing your customer experience. You may be conscious of it or not, but even if don’t pay attention to it, no need to be a design expert to feel the wellness associated. That is what is transforming any customer experience into a nice one...

Calder style using small tables at Cassina


Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Coffee at the counter...


Yesterday, while I was having my coffee at the counter, it came to my mind that it was probably one of the last time I was drinking a coffee in a bar  in Italy. I had a look around me, listened to the noise of the plates and cups extracted of the dishwasher, saw the guy managing perfectly all his actions to make 2, 3, 5 coffees at the same time (in a minimum of gesture). I noticed the old boiserie,  the smell of the coffee, the guy knowing by heart each customer preference and I thought how funny it was, that morning coffee had became one of my favourite daily routine, whereas when I arrived, I was finding it stressful. I remember how weird it was for me to see people getting their “shot” of coffee and leaving. 



In France, we have the tradition of seating to sip our coffee. I remember as well how I started loving that moment, like if every morning, when I was getting up, I was having my injection of Italian culture before starting the day. It was not anymore about considering this moment as drinking a coffee alone and in a hurry, no, it was like if I had finally discovered the Italian secret: the art of getting a concentrate of social life mixed with caffeine energy in less than 3 minutes… It was about small pleasures, and for this, no need of the volume of an American coffee…

Monday, November 21, 2011

Leaving Italy: one of those morning moments...


This morning, still in my “Im leaving Milan soon” mindset, I had the most amazing walk. In 10 min, I saw a guy staring at me (from the tits to the butt), a old lady wearing fur coat  and carrying  her fashion tiny chiwawa dog  (yes we can kill mink but dogs are like babies..), a guy checking that the chrome of his motorbike was OK, after his girlfriend fell while trying to jump on it (why should we check if the girl is ok too ?…). I arrived then at the level of road works, there the 5 working men were working while watching all the girls going around. I thought, this is amazing, this is I.T.A.L.Y. Even if I have to be honest, cause I probably never paid so much attention in my own country, the fact that it’s striking me even after 2 years, means the overall culture is different. Italy is like a SHOW (for people like the French)… And either you  laugh about it or you hate it….

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Milano Cimitero Monumentale


Working in the area, and knowing I was about to leave Milano, one day I finally escaped during “pausa pranzo” to visit Cimitero Monumentale.

I’m not really into visiting cemetery and taking pictures of graves, I find it weird and voyeurist.  But that day, my curiosity won, everybody was keep talking about it, I could not leave Milano without visiting it...
Without knowing, I probably picked the best moment of the year to do it: with All saints, graves were covered by flowers and the winter light of midday was giving a strange ambiance…


I have to admit I would have never imagined what I saw, I was expecting big but not so crazy insane big. This cemetery is like a Versailles for dead people, even if  I would consider it more like a Disneyworld: every famous “name” has its own doll house and tried to make it the most appealing. So walking in the alley, you go from the egyptian pyramid, the greek temple, roman architecture, Indian influence small palaces to very modern structures.


 


Initially it has been build mid 19th century to gather all the small cemeteries of Milan and a lot of famous people are buried there. But I experimented it as a completely megalomaniac place. It reminded me UBU ROI from Alfred Jarry, where a ridiculous image is given to "fame and power" greedy people, afraid of death cause nobody will remember them, and so try to find a way of leaving a trace.
While I was walking there, I tried to focus only on architecture, to avoid the discomfort left by watching graves. Yet, the sculptures on the graves have been made to catch the eyes, they are everywhere, big, in bronze, scary. Even the sun or the flowers, don’t manage to give them a quiet and peaceful attitude, it’s even worse, they become surrealist. You can’t avoid feeling the pain everywhere: the sculptures are standing for people praying in the pain, skeletons, death metaphor… Like if each time you have to think about dead people you have to feel guilty and bad. I’m not saying death is not a big deal, I’m just saying I prefer to keep a positive souvenir of the people I met and are dead, more than feeling about to commit suicide cause, me, I’m still here. I remember visiting a cemetery during all saints in Morne à l'eau in Guadeloupe, the graves were giving you a healthy feeling. They had lighted candles everywhere, and the warmth of the candles was giving a positive/joyful atmosphere. A good way to remember people you used to know, nothing compared to the traditionalist “ I have to whip myself cause I have to feel pain of death”…




Thursday, November 10, 2011

A DOG LIFE


The other day, while I was under the rain, walking in the streets, I noticed several  dogs wearing jackets and I thought “ahh right it’s winter, I had forgot… dogs wear clothes in Italy during winter.”
Actually, when I arrived in Italy, it’s been one of the first things that stroke me: the Italian dog icon.
I may be wrong but I have the feeling that Italians have a special relationship with their dogs. Dogs are like an extension of themselves, like “cool” accessories. You watch the dog and it gives you an idea of which identity/image the owner wants to give of him. Getting the wrong dog or the wrong dog’s outfit and you gave a wrong idea of you. OK I may exaggerate but I’m sure I’m not that far from reality.
It didn't take me hours analyzing the phenomenon to understand that dogs have  either to be small/ cute or need to be in 2, like if,  having a pair (like a pair of earings), was a sign of breeding quality race and hence luxury goods.
As I mentioned earlier, they need as well to wear clothes during winter, I think I will never forgot the day I saw a guy with a Montcler jacket and his dog wearing a mini one, awesome. 



I saw so many petshops with “nice” outfits, there is a real business there, I mean at the end why fashion should be only for human beings? dogs must be cold as well… Honestly, I don’t know. I hesitate between finding it ridiculous or shameful since a lot of homeless can’t even wear proper clothes during winter.
The other trend  I did notice is to have a dog pooh bags stock on the leash, this means you re conscious that its really not nice to have dirty side walks and to slalom between dog poohs. 


Still, that does not seem to erase the problem, the first apartment I was living in, was located in an area where all the dogs where just coming to poop. I keep reminding the billboard in front of the school saying: “please this is a kindergarden, have your dog poop somewhere else” but I guess Italians were refusing to read it. 
I'd like to mention though, I haven’t been the only one shocked by this behaviour and that tried to understand it. I read an article once, written by a British, he was wondering why Italians are able to have so beautiful interiors (and be maniac with cleaning) but once they’re outside, don’t care about turning the space filthy…